human relationships

What exactly are they about? Just a bunch of people trying very hard to understand another bunch of people, but somewhere, things going wrong, and then 'complications' kicking in.
To start with, an ex. of a couple must be appropriate. first comes the dating, then the part of being together, then saying 'i love you' for the first time, and then ending up either getting married or if things go wrong, breaking up. Here, there's also a bunch of other stuff that happens between these two people. There's love, there's aggression, they cry because of each other, they make each other happy too, they understand and develop certain emotions for each other, that are sometimes hard to explain, some things are better unsaid. They both lie to each other, sometimes only to protect one another from hurt, but sometimes end up disappointing each other. This is normal. More than natural infact. Its human behavior. Feelings are a part of our brain development. So when sometimes, the sad part of such relationships kick in, we blame it on them, on us, on our heart, on love perhaps. What we don't understand, is that when we give in something as huge, as big and as mighty as our love to someone, it doesn't come for free. There are battles you have to go through. Fights and wars you have with yourself. There's more than a gallon of emotions you have to go through. You've got to make sacrifices for the happiness you've chosen. And even if you haven't chosen to be in love with a guy/girl, you're still in love with somebody, right? There's your mum, your dad, your siblings or cousins, your dogs or cats, tv shows or books, movies or video games. There's a lot to fall in love with rather than just one person. But you have to remember, that your brain and heart work in a way that they're told to be, so some or the other thing here, its going to disappoint you. Some things are just, going to make you sad somehow. The trick is, you have to find secret ways to make yourself happy. To forgive, and forget, to be in the moment. To have your own mantra and vow to yourself to walk on it for as long as it makes you happy.

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